I used to be afraid of swimming.
Come to think of it, maybe I was afraid of water: I also hated bath time.
Anyway, I no longer fear the water – I’ve already taken two showers this year:)
And I love swimming!
So here’s how I overcame my fear…
THE SUMMER OF 1970 SOMETHING
A young Mr. Vig was wading into the family backyard swimming pool with his usual water wings strapped to his arms.
Then some friends came over.
They didn’t need water wings.
Instead, they took turns jumping off the diving board into the deep end.
They were having fun without me!
I didn’t like that.
So I took off my water wings and joined them.
And that is how I conquered my fear.
I jumped into the deep end.
But not right away.
And I definitely needed some motivation in the form of peer pressure.
ONE SIZE FITS ALL?
Yesterday, I asked you if you agree or disagree that jumping into the deep end is a good way to learn to speak.
Polyglot Benny Lewis, who wrote the book Fluent In Three Months, says “Speak from day one.”
But I’m not convinced it’s a good idea for everyone.
Tell me what you think in the comments.
And tomorrow, I’ll give you my recommendation.


Νομίζω ότι για την ομιλία επιβάλλεται από την πρώτη μέρα.Γιατι αν το αφήσεις σε αφήνει κι αυτό.Για την κολύμβηση πιστεύω το αντίθετο γιατί είχα άσχημη εμπειρία θέλοντας να μου μάθουν κολύμπι
I’ve realized that I can overcome my fear of speaking only when the conversation really engages me, whether because of the topic or the person I’m talking to. But this happens to me even in my native language, so I don’t know. I think that in any case, having a truly interesting discussion makes me less inhibited.
Speaking from the very beginning is very good idea. Word by word. That is how we learn our native language.
Maybe it is the best way to learn the language, but I’m afraid of direct conversation. It would be a big challenge. I’m afraid I’m still a beginner.